Ive known him for the last 15 years so im sure about this. He Lies, manipulates, his whole being is a fake construction, quotes and steals ideas from others, violent and aggressive, fights cowardly (kicks in the groin, unexpected headbutts etc), he steals (like “borrow without asking”), he calls himself “alphamale”, very charming and fakes his personality towards new people, especially girls, promiscuous sexual behavior, easily bored and needs entertainment or stimuli, drugs, lots of weed and alcohol, no remorse, lack of respect for authority. He says he hates violence, but is always up for a fight. If he cries it is just to win empathy, every move is an conscious investment with an self centered objective.
Life is a game for him, and the social scene is his primary arena. I see straight through him though, he doesn’t know.
If get up into trouble, he’s the guy to call. So I use him too, he loves to beat the crap out of someone with a reason which really means nothing to him.
I always thought my boyfriend was controlling, I found an answer I soon realized was beyond just controlling, I believe he is a sociopath. (more…)